02 May 2015 9 Comments
***Trigger Warnings: suicide, mental illness***
It has taken me awhile to write this post. I apologize for the length. It involves a long journey into my past and it was hard to get my feelings in order. I will have to share some more of my story with you for you to understand.
It has taken me a long time, but I have wrestled most of my demons into a fairly peaceful place. They are always with me, sitting off in the corner as I go about my daily business. But we have reached a tenuous truce. They can sit on the couch with me watching the TV, but I control the remote. Every so often, however, they lash out unexpectedly and change the station. We begin the battle all over again. More
02 May 2015 1 Comment
What do you do when your rapist shows up on your Facebook feed? Thankfully, mine is not on Facebook. But his friends are. His coworkers. A mutual friend once told me, “Mark says hi! He asks how you are doing?” That was one of the most triggering things anyone has ever said to me. It reminded me that he was still out there, living his life, going to work, chatting with friends. People were his friends. People who didn’t know what he was.
This video is is very powerful. Watch with care. The poet’s bravery shines through.
The accompanying article tells his story.
20 Feb 2015 2 Comments
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01 Nov 2014 Leave a comment
So…I’m trying this NaNoWriMo thing again!
If you’ve been reading for quite some time, you may remember that I NaNo’d two years ago. It was the first I had ever heard of NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month for those of you who may not know) and I was very excited. While I did not write the requisite 50,000 words, I did indeed write around 10,000. I felt pretty darned good about that.
Then the following year, I tried NaBloPoMo (National Blog Posting Month or something like that) where you vow to write a blog post each day throughout the month of November. This was more successful, and I think I posted 26 posts out of the 30 days.
What I found out doing Nano the first time was that I am totally not prepared to write an actual novel. So I’m bending the extremely flexible Nano rules this time and writing a collection of short stories. This suits my writing style better and I feel I will be much more successful.
I won’t go on and on, but keep your eye on the widget in the sidebar. It should update my wordcount throughout the month. I’ve got 1800 or so words for this first day. Anyone care to join me????
Aimee (who you may or may not hear from for the next 30 days!)
01 Nov 2014 8 Comments
***Trigger Warning for school violence and shootings***
It’s been a challenging two weeks. I found triggers in unexpected places and I found that I had the strength to ride them out.
It started with a staff meeting at school. If you have not been in a school in a while, we have a variety of emergency drills that never existed when I was a child. In addition to the fire and tornado drills of my childhood, we now have lock-down drills. These are further subdivided into “internal threat”, “external threat” and the terrifying “imminent threat”. This is what was being discussed at the meeting. I have participated in these drills before. I have taken a group of children and had them hide in a closet sitting in complete silence as we pretend that there is an intruder in the building. They never bothered me before. More
14 Sep 2014 3 Comments
I saw this on Facebook this morning and I really liked it. Let us all hope that one day we can wear our survival gracefully. Thank you all for surviving and standing with me as I try. I am standing with all of you. Have a great week everyone!
18 Aug 2014 4 Comments
Happiness, terror, sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach, relief, a bit of nausea…that sums up my weekend. Coupled by quite a bit of excitement and disappointment.
No, I did not ride the newest coaster at Cedar Point (although I would really love to do that!) I got together all of my courage and I told my mother about my rape. After 32 years. More
14 Aug 2014 1 Comment
Well, Mr. OneWoman gave the financial go ahead to my Chicago trip. Apparently there is indeed enough money in the bank to finance a short trip! I am very excited to go see the Monument Quilt when it stops in Chicago next week. I think it will be an extremely emotional trip, but one I need to take.
There is one very large snag in the plan. More